Sitting in AWANA, Youth Group – Tom, a wonderful saint, taps me on the shoulder  “So, how’s your walk with the savior?” Not in a judgmental or condemning fashion, but in a genuine caring and loving tone, with humility.

 

Don’t remember what I said, but I began to think about that in the weeks to come. So, my friends, let me ask you this morning, how’s your walk with the savior?

 

Enemies, Servants, Friends and Sons

 

4 levels of relationship with God in Christ, as revealed in the scripture.

The whole of human history, both national and individual, is there to help us to change more and more into the likeness of Him who does not change. To deepen our relationship with Jesus Christ.

 

As Wayne Watson said, “I want to grow so close to Christ that His return brings no great change to my personal walk with Him”.

 

Relational Maturity – OT-NT-Kingdom  - Progressive Revelation

Loving Enemies is a primary indicator of walking in Sonship and heir of God in Christ. And it sort of comes full circle from being an enemy to being a son where you love those individuals who are still enemies.

 

Luke 6:27  “But I tell you who hear me: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, 28 bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. 29 If someone strikes you on one cheek, turn to him the other also. If someone takes your cloak, do not stop him from taking your tunic. 30 Give to everyone who asks you, and if anyone takes what belongs to you, do not demand it back. 31 Do to others as you would have them do to you.

 

My enemies list – “How do I love thee? Let me count the ways”

Homework - Write the people you consider, or who consider you, their enemies. These are people for whom Christ died, so how can you love them in real terms?

 

 

Let’s be honest about it…

We prefer those who love us and it should be fair, right? I have my rights after all! Don’t I?

 

 

Luke 6:32  “If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even ‘sinners’ love those who love them. 33 And if you do good to those who are good to you, what credit is that to you? Even ‘sinners’ do that. 34 And if you lend to those from whom you expect repayment, what credit is that to you? Even ‘sinners’ lend to ‘sinners,’ expecting to be repaid in full. 35 But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back. Then your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High, because he is kind to the ungrateful and wicked. 36 Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful.

 

Sons of the Most High God. The ultimate title!

The index of leading indictors says….

- Are my priorities God and Others centered or me centered?

- How does my day reflect God’s priorities? Really.

 

Phil. 3:13 Brothers, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, 14 I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.

KJV - Phil. 3:14 I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus.

 

Our priorities are the primary indicators of which of these relational maturity levels we live in. Although we can have aspects of our relationship with Christ that are involved in all 4.

Loving our enemies is an indicator of the highest level of relationship, sonship.

 

Enemy – Sin-Separation/Self interests dominate

Rom. 5:6 ¶ You see, at just the right time, when we were still powerless, Christ died for the ungodly. 7 Very rarely will anyone die for a righteous man, though for a good man someone might possibly dare to die. 8 But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us. 9 ¶ Since we have now been justified by his blood, how much more shall we be saved from God’s wrath through him! 10 For if, when we were God’s enemies, we were reconciled to him through the death of his Son, how much more, having been reconciled, shall we be saved through his life!

 

A former enemy of God. Who, me?

Yup. Romans 5 shows how amazing grace really is! It saved a wretch, an enemy like me. Praise God!

 

 

Who do you consider an enemy of God? What if they received Christ?

Would we be happy or would be Jonah about it? Ninevah

Jonah 4:1 ¶ But Jonah was greatly displeased and became angry. :2 He prayed to the LORD,  “O LORD, is this not what I said when I was still at home? That is why I was so quick to flee to Tarshish. I knew that you are a gracious and compassionate God, slow to anger and abounding in love, a God who relents from sending calamity. :3 Now, O LORD, take away my life, for it is better for me to die than to live.”

 

Where does the blood of Christ lay? Mine and yours.

Amazing Grace!

 

 

But God knew I’d choose Him so He chose me. NOT!

Sorry. It’s all God and truly is Amazing!

 

 

Servant - Fear-Desire/Obedience

Legalism – What can I get away with to satisfy myself and still be OK with God?  How far can I go for myself (as opposed to what can I do to please God) Israel in the OT.

 

Just inside the door…

1Cor. 3:12 If any man builds on this foundation using gold, silver, costly stones, wood, hay or straw, 13  his work will be shown for what it is, because the Day will bring it to light. It will be revealed with fire, and the fire will test the quality of each man’s work. 14 If what he has built survives, he will receive his reward. 15 If it is burned up, he will suffer loss; he himself will be saved, but only as one escaping through the flames.

 

1Cor. 5:1 ¶ It is actually reported that there is sexual immorality among you, and of a kind that does not occur even among pagans: A man has his father’s wife. 3 And you are proud! Shouldn’t you rather have been filled with grief and have put out of your fellowship the man who did this?  3 Even though I am not physically present, I am with you in spirit. And I have already passed judgment on the one who did this, just as if I were present. 4 When you are assembled in the name of our Lord Jesus and I am with you in spirit, and the power of our Lord Jesus is present, 5 hand this man over to Satan, so that the sinful nature may be destroyed and his spirit saved on the day of the Lord.

 

 

On being a servant. For whose sake do we do it? Usually, ours!

- Temporal, earthly foundations but just inside the gates…

- 1 Cor 3:12 – saved, but as one escaping flames

- Better than outside, but just the starting place. Let’s move forward

 

Was Paul Passing Judgment?

Am I my brothers keeper?

 

1Cor. 12:27 ¶ Now you are the body of Christ, and each one of you is a part of it.

 

We are part of one another.

No islands in Christ

Health is everyone’s job!

 

Rom. 12:5 so in Christ we who are many form one body, and each member belongs to all the others.

 

 

Luke 6:37-38. Am I my brothers keeper?

- The point is to be loving, not judging in the flesh

- Part of being loving is being my brothers keeper!

         Romans 12:5 – we belong to one another

         1 Cor. 12:27 – we are one(!) body of Christ

 

Friend –

John 15:9  “As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Now remain in my love. 10 If you obey my commands, you will remain in my love, just as I have obeyed my Father’s commands and remain in his love.  11 I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete.  12 My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. 13 Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends. 14 You are my friends if you do what I command. 15 I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master’s business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you. 16 You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you to go and bear fruit — fruit that will last. Then the Father will give you whatever you ask in my name. 17 This is my command: Love each other.

 

Greatest Commands – The law and epistles are fulfilled in the 2 great commands. Relationship!

 

Friends. Being in on the what and the why of Jesus

John 15:9 – Moving from Servant to Friend means WWJD is WWID (what will I do). Good thing Jesus is a forgiving friend! Amazing grace.

 

How does this love manifest itself?

 

Son -

Rom. 8:12 ¶ Therefore, brothers, we have an obligation — but it is not to the sinful nature, to live according to it. 13 For if you live according to the sinful nature, you will die; but if by the Spirit you put to death the misdeeds of the body, you will live, 14 because those who are led by the Spirit of God are sons of God.  15 For you did not receive a spirit that makes you a slave again to fear, but you received the Spirit of sonship. And by him we cry,  “Abba, Father.”  16 The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we are God’s children. 17 Now if we are children, then we are heirs — heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, if indeed we share in his sufferings in order that we may also share in his glory.

 

Luke 6: 35 But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back. Then your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High, because he is kind to the ungrateful and wicked. 36 Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful.

 

 

Sonship. Being co-heirs with Jesus. WOW

Romans 8 – Walk in the Spirit and you are God’s son.

Galatians 5 – Sons manifest the Fruit of the Spirit. By the fruit, Jesus said, you will know them!

 

Gal. 5:22 ¶ But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,

Gal. 5:23 gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.

 

Tabernacle – The Pathway To The Throne of God – Alienation, Justification, Sanctification, Glorification

 

Alienation – Outer Darkness  -

Justification – The light of the Altar

Sanctification – The light of the candles

Glorification – The Only Light is the Light of Christ – New Jerusalem – The City which hath foundations

 

Application –

“Where are you at in your walk with the savior?” Which of the 4 relationship categories dominates your life? Have you experienced being His friend or progressed to walking in the Spirit as His son?

 

Starting a friendship with God is as simple as answering the call and saying Yes to Christ’s leadership in your life. As simple as acknowledging you need Him to save you and give you the abundant life He promised!

 

Where are you now? Where do you want to be?

If you want to move deeper in God, He is ready. He is faithful. The body is ready and wants to help you. We are one body, one faith and serve one AMAZING Savior, Lord, Friend and Brother.

 

If you are an enemy, you need a Savior and Lord.

If you are an servant, you need a Friend.

If you are a friend, move deeper to be a Son!

 

If you’ve experienced that relationship with Christ but you want to go deeper with Him into the experience of Sonship, being led by and filled with the Spirit, then the New Testament example is for a believer to pray with you, laying on their hands and asking God to empower you with His Holy Spirit, the comforter, the one who leads you into all truth and brings the words of Jesus to you.

 

So, friends, how’s your walk with the savior?